Im here on this forum for a long time now, so i need not to impress anyone
The answer to your question was there, the rules are same for men & women
if a guy is from a noble family is doesn't make him noble automatically so a guy from noble family can be really cheap and he may not need a woman for that
& for the second part of your question i dont know what to say.... i cant understand where are you coming from...
what do you mean by shameless? you havent told me that yet